
The crisis ends at noon. You’re still in fight mode at midnight.
This is the pattern that burns out professionals and founders: You handle the emergency brilliantly, but you never decelerate after. Acute stress slides into chronic stress. The path to burnout gets shorter every week.
𝗧𝗵𝗲 P𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 N𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆 D𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗼𝘆𝗲𝗱 M𝗲
My law practice ran on high-stakes cases—fast-moving, short, intense. I’d burn the midnight oil for a morning hearing. The case would wrap by lunchtime. Then I’d spend the rest of the day unnecessarily operating in fight mode.
Worse: I’d spend the evening at the bar, reliving every detail over too many glasses of wine. By 2005, after 15 years in full flight, I crashed and burned.
The pattern was clear: I managed crises effectively. I just never switched gears after them.
𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻’𝘁 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 “𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗲𝘁”
Traditional stress advice focuses on perception—reframe the stressor, manage your self-talk, shift your mindset. These tools work for long-term resilience. I use them with clients.
But here’s the on-the-ground reality: When the crisis hits, you’re managing the situation, not your emotions. Unless you’ve done stress management groundwork in advance, mindset tools are the last thing you can access.
This is why post-crisis recovery matters more than mid-crisis management.
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗲𝗰𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗼𝗰𝗼𝗹
As soon as you’ve handled the situation, take yourself into recovery mode. Ten to fifteen minutes. That’s your window to shift from fight-or-flight back to baseline.
The options are simple and science-backed:
- Breathwork with longer exhales than inhales (try 4:6 ratio)
- Brain entrainment—isochronic tones or binaural beats that activate alpha brainwaves
- Heart coherence breathing practice
- Virtual reality session
- 15 minutes of non-sleep deep rest or yoga nidra
- Wearable tech that stimulates the vagus nerve, calming your nervous system
- A walk outside near green space
No third party required. No hour-long commitment. Just a deliberate practice that tells your nervous system the crisis is over.
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗺𝘂𝗹𝗮 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀: 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀 + R𝗲𝗰𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 = G𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵.
Without recovery, stress accumulates. With it, you build resilience and stay in the game for the long haul.
Life will throw more curveballs. More crises. More moments that demand you ramp up fast. The professionals and entrepreneurs who thrive aren’t the ones who avoid stress—they’re the ones who decelerate after it.
A modest investment of 10-15 minutes will help you burn bright, not out.
••• If you have a serious health condition always consult with your clinician before embarking on a new breathwork practice.



